Okay first I wanted a emperor scorpion but I have decided that a tarantula is better for me. I have a few questions. I have seen it on multiple care sheets that it says high humidity and on another it says low! Which one and can they stay at room temp? And what is the best way to pick one up out of its tank without it getting ****ed? And how can you tell the difference between a male or female because I would rather have a female. Thanks please help!!