Hi all.....Yesterday i fell inlov witha cute little chubby frog! Adorable! However I have a few questions that I am hoping someone can hep me with. How do I tell if I have a male/female? I bought forrest moss for its substraight, but the stuff stinks!!!! I read ur suppose to put down gravel, then soil and orchid brk, and put the moss on top of that. If your putting ALL this stuff in he tank, do you remove it ALL when cleaning the tank, or just remove the moss? Do they releive themselves in one area, or just go potty everywhere? I tried to give her/him a wax worm last night, and she/he backed up, and blew up her/his body to a enourmous size!!!! So then I put the wax worm along with some mealies in asmall dish, and they are still there this morning. Does she need a settleing in period? This is my first frog since I was a kid. And Ialso want to get a pacman frog....can I house them both together...I am using a 10 gal. Oh one last quetion...the pet shop said I don't need to give her heat....but I read they should have undertank heat to about 75degrees...My average house temp is 68 year round (I don't have central air). Thank you all in advance for your help!!! Peace! Buffalofroggie!