THANK YOU ALL for chiming in, so helpful.

Sorry I forget sometimes leaving out key info in a post, leads to confusion.
About the
Lamps - Yes, Merlin it's the 2 incand. I have turned off because it gets to be 100-105 on his basking and that seems too turn him off, he'll go hide. His 55 GAL Tank (not a fish tank) is a few inches from the window which lets in some light and heat. I promise you since we got him he has never basked for more than 30 min. The UVA/UVB (Mercury Lamp) was measured it and its not as close as it should be, about 12".
Monitoring Temps - I use a probe taped to the basking spot (101 with UVA/UVB light add an incandescent and it jumps to 110) and an instant read for ambient temps. It's usually around 80-85/ maybe 75 in the opposite corner where he hides in his tank during the summer.
Food - I used to give him greens (mustard/Collard/dandelion) I will get back on them, he just seemed to not like them. I mix in micro greens too, but sparingly because I'm not sure how potent the sprouts are. I mix in squash, and fruit all kinds from the "list" and he avoids them all. I will tough love it out!
Bugs - I won't let him eat anything outside, we don't have fireflies (in SO CA) but we do have nice temps to give him lots of outdoor time.
I think I am going to move him into another room where we can interact with him more, I took him outside yesterday and he kept puffing up every time I walked by and he could see my shadow above, poor guy... but after that when I put him back in his cage he was active for about 30 min and then crawled in the coolest/darkest spot curled up and slept and now he's still in the same spot, almost 18 hrs later.
I am going to order another bulb and a leash -- but I guess if he's brumating (sp?) I'm forcing him to be active..
thanks again for the support!
Linz