We're more than just a website...
Reptile Forums - HC Network
   ... we're a community.


Everything Above Disappears When You log In Or Register!

Reptile Forums - Registration Is Free
Registration is free - Sign Up Now

Caresheets    Articles    Reviews    Books Reptile Books - Literature  

Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

This is what our member has to say: Ok I have a slight problem. I adopted out a male iguana two and a half months ago, to a great home. However they are ...


»   Reptile Forums - The HC Network > Reptile Forums > Lizards > Green Iguana - IC > IC Behavior > IC General Behavior Discussion
  »

Iguana Bonding Only with Me??



This thread is currently here for archival purposes only. As a result of this thread being inactive for over 90 days, it is no longer accepting posts.
Please start a new thread if you seek additional information regarding this topic.


 
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
  #1  
 I helped move the meter!   04-12-2008, 12:34 PM
nicole's Avatar
nicole
home of the unwanted
Offline
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Washington
Posts: 1,846
Blog Entries: 6
Thanks: 7
Thanked 24 Times in 24 Posts
Images: 101
Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

Ok I have a slight problem.

I adopted out a male iguana two and a half months ago, to a great home. However they are saying that all he does is try to bite tham and smack them with his tail. I have given them all the advice they need to help get him used to his surroundings but apparantly it is not working.

I went over yesterday and when she went to take him out of his enclosure he lunged at her and almost bit her. I walked up to him and sternly told him to knock it off,, he lowered his head and I picked him up and he ended up falling asleep on me. I put him back in his enclosure and had her try to get him out again and he did the same thing. I once again sternly told him to knock it off and picked him up and he lowers his head and falls asleep on me.

Do you think it is possible that he has only bonded with me and will never bond with her. He bullies her and scares her to death. He was not that way when they were getting to know each other at my home.

Anyone got any advice or info?? I think I may have to go pick him Ughhh, lol
__________________




I have sucker tattood on my forehead

  #2  
 I helped move the meter!   04-12-2008, 12:42 PM
SurvivorSteph's Avatar
SurvivorSteph
IC Administrator
Offline
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: San Joaquin Valley, CA
Posts: 2,381
Thanks: 10
Thanked 25 Times in 25 Posts
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

It sounds like she's (they've) trained him that they'll back off if he acts aggressive. Of course there would have been adjustment time, but 2 months is plenty.

Yet when you walked in, you were alpha immediately... and he knew it. It sounds like they need to "alpha up," and not let him bully them.
__________________
~~Steph

"This I believe: That the free, exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world." John Steinbeck

The Following User Says Thank You to SurvivorSteph For This Useful Post:
nicole (04-15-2008)
  #3  
04-12-2008, 02:29 PM
Merlin's Avatar
Merlin
Administrator
Offline
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Oklahoma City, Ok.
Posts: 11,560
Thanks: 9
Thanked 187 Times in 184 Posts
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

I agree
Quote:
He bullies her and scares her to death.
Theres your answer right there. They lack the knowledge and confidence to deal with him.
Quote:
He was not that way when they were getting to know each other at my home
. There he was in YOUR territory and knew you would not put up with it. He's got them bamboozled.
As I see it, aside from taking him back the only thing you can do is to spend some time there coaching them on how to deal with him. Staying out of sight of the ig but where you can monitor the situation.
__________________
Merlin,
What's Life Without A Little Magic!

The Following User Says Thank You to Merlin For This Useful Post:
nicole (04-15-2008)
  #4  
 I helped move the meter!   04-12-2008, 03:36 PM
SurvivorSteph's Avatar
SurvivorSteph
IC Administrator
Offline
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: San Joaquin Valley, CA
Posts: 2,381
Thanks: 10
Thanked 25 Times in 25 Posts
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

That is a great suggestion... you'll be able to observe their reactions and interactions, and give immediate feedback.
__________________
~~Steph

"This I believe: That the free, exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world." John Steinbeck

  #5  
 I helped move the meter!   04-12-2008, 04:10 PM
schlegelbagel's Avatar
schlegelbagel
Moderator & Frog Lover
Online
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Abingdon, Maryland
Posts: 4,736
Blog Entries: 56
Thanks: 11
Thanked 179 Times in 179 Posts
Images: 13
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

Quote:
Originally Posted by SurvivorSteph View Post
Yet when you walked in, you were alpha immediately... and he knew it. It sounds like they need to "alpha up," and not let him bully them.
I'm not an Ig owner, but I know this is the same thing with dogs too! I think the Ig is training THEM.
__________________
My name is Liz
Do what's best for the animal, not what's best for you.

  #6  
 I helped move the meter!   04-13-2008, 01:36 PM
nicole's Avatar
nicole
home of the unwanted
Offline
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Washington
Posts: 1,846
Blog Entries: 6
Thanks: 7
Thanked 24 Times in 24 Posts
Images: 101
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

Well, I am going over tonight,, I will be using Merlins advice and coaching them without him seeing me. Hopefully it all works out,, as this is a really good placement,, minus this issue, lol.
__________________




I have sucker tattood on my forehead

  #7  
04-13-2008, 09:34 PM
Merlin's Avatar
Merlin
Administrator
Offline
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Oklahoma City, Ok.
Posts: 11,560
Thanks: 9
Thanked 187 Times in 184 Posts
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

They just have to instill in him that THEY are the big dog,...No ifs ands or buts!
__________________
Merlin,
What's Life Without A Little Magic!

  #8  
 I helped move the meter!   04-13-2008, 09:49 PM
nicole's Avatar
nicole
home of the unwanted
Offline
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Washington
Posts: 1,846
Blog Entries: 6
Thanks: 7
Thanked 24 Times in 24 Posts
Images: 101
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

well I was just there for a half an hour, and I will be returning tomorrow. they did a little better, but I am not really sure it is going to work out.

I discussed the leopard geckos I have in at the moment,, maybe that is a better start.

They a huge red tail which is beautiful, but they cant handle the ig,,go figure, lol
__________________




I have sucker tattood on my forehead

  #9  
04-13-2008, 10:15 PM
Merlin's Avatar
Merlin
Administrator
Offline
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Oklahoma City, Ok.
Posts: 11,560
Thanks: 9
Thanked 187 Times in 184 Posts
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

LOL! For the most part handling a boa is a cake walk compared to dealing with an adult ig!
__________________
Merlin,
What's Life Without A Little Magic!

  #10  
 I helped move the meter!   04-13-2008, 10:39 PM
nicole's Avatar
nicole
home of the unwanted
Offline
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Washington
Posts: 1,846
Blog Entries: 6
Thanks: 7
Thanked 24 Times in 24 Posts
Images: 101
Re: Iguana Bonding Only with Me??

I dont know,, lol. You need to meet some of my boas, lol. I get bit by them more than anyone in here.
__________________




I have sucker tattood on my forehead

 


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Green Iguana Society Dominick Reptile Links Exchange 0 02-19-2008 04:36 PM
Iguana to adopt/Indianapolis jengal Adoptions 5 09-10-2007 07:15 PM
i got an iguana! ktulu IC General Discussion 36 05-31-2007 01:30 AM
Would these plans work? iguanaboy13 General Construction 7 08-16-2006 05:01 AM
Other Iguana owners in Hong Kong? replover IC General Discussion 2 01-16-2006 09:30 AM

Thread Tools


Herp Center Topsites
All times are GMT -4. The time now is 08:01 PM.


Direct Navigation
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263

Reptile Forums - The HC Network - CH - Staff - Archive - Top