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02-07-2007, 04:43 PM
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hey all this morning I recieved a phone call from north folk southern reguarding a application I gave them about 4 months ago any way they are offering me about 12000 more a year and moving expence to move back to michigan, this is all great but I cant seem to get an un- biest opinion becuase most my freinds and family know it was my goal to end up in tennesse, but working for the railroad would be better than what I am doing now when it comes to pay benifits and retirment, BUT I would have to move back to michigan. so what do you all think
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Depends. Happy with how your life is now? Or, do you need more cash and can live with being MI?

12K can seem like a lot to a lot of people, however, it's not enough to sacrifice my happiness and goals. That's just me, however. It's all up to you.
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This is one call nobody but you can make.
As Zane said money isn't everything but it can make things easier! You just have to balance out what you want out of your life with what it will be with what is offered.
Either way good luck with your decision.
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see thats one of my issues michigan is my home and always will be and to be honest I am no happier or sad-er then I was in MI (winter kinda sucks though) and as for goals I just wanna survive lol I know its a low ball goal but I dont want to be the one to make the waves I just wanna ride em
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You also need to decide what job you would be happier doing.
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You also need to decide what job you would be happier doing.
thats why its so hard !! lol its the same job just different company
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 I helped move the meter!   02-07-2007, 05:13 PM
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According to new discoveries in positive psychology, conditions in your life can make you happier or unhappier, but usually you eventually get used to them. Money has shown to bring long term happiness only when it makes it possible to live just above your needs, anything more will not make you lastingly happier.
HOWEVER, there ARE conditions that people never adjust to:
1). long commutes to and from work. People who commute arrive at work with higher levels of stress hormones, than people who don't commute.
2) noise: especially irregular noise like living on a busy street
3) relationship conflict: people tend to stay upset and angry for hours, days (or longer) even when the other person isn't around.

Will this move make you happier in the long run? To figure that out, you have to think past the conditions such as money or the state you'll live in.
Voluntary Activities are where people can actually affect the biggest change in their overall happiness:
Do you have more friends or social contacts in MI or in TN?
Can you pursue your free-time interests/hobbies more actively in one place or the other?
Will the higher pay enable you to do things for yourself that you wouldn't be able to do otherwise? (i.e. take a course or learn a new skill/hobby.)
Buying a new guitar is a condition that can make you happy for a while, but paying for a music course or having more money/time to invest in playing your music will make you lastingly happier.
Also the amount of control you have in your life/job is a factor that has been proven (far more than money) to make people more or less satisfied. Will your new job/move provide you with more or less or the same control over how you work/live?

So what if it was your goal to end up in Tennessee?? -- You ended up there (goal achieved), now you can move again. Tennessee will still be there later if you need it!
No one can tell you what is the better choice, but IMO you are WAY too young to "end up" anywhere permanently!
Good luck!

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one word "wow" you must be a phyc major lol, I guess I better consider mi cuz like you said I acheived my goal time for a new one .......
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Take heed

Think of it this way are you truly happier in Tennessee.Money is not everything.Will your reptiles be able to handle a move after just starting to get used to their new home.Didn't you move to your current place not to long ago why not give it a little time to grow on you.Everyone I know from Michigan hates Michigan.

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i cant say I hate michigan, as a matter of fact I love my Michigan lol the wilderness the lakes its great, and tennese is great to but my son is in Mi and that is one of my biggest deciding factors, I know one thing for sure no matter where I go I will have the same bills the same problems, and most likey the same stress, my mother says I have "itchy feet" becuase since I was 16 I have moved from state to state, shes still trying to figure out what I am looking for, even though I have tried to make it clear that I am pretty sure I am not searching for any thing
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