"Squirt vinegar in your own face and see how you like it"
Actualy, if theres boardwalk fries involved, you could totally squirt me in the face with vinegar, boardwalk fries and vinegar, yummmm.
But no, seriously While I personally don't use vinegar on any of my animals, there's a very good chance these snakes will be bought by someone with even less snake experience then I have, and id rather it be a behavior they outgrew now then later, squirting them in the mouth with vinegar is not something I relish doing, but the fact is its essentialy behavior modification, without hurting them your letting them know that its not okay to continue biting. Theres still people that squirt cats with water for jumping on tables, its about as discomforting.
For the time being i've been just handling him with my pigskin leather gloves on, he's figured out when the gloves are on he's not gonna achieve anything biting, that or maybe they deaden enough of the heat, but either way he does not really go after my hands when im wearing them that often.
"I refuse to ... hold her to death"
When I hold snakes im pretty careful not to squeeze too hard...

They are benefiting a bit from the extra handling, whenever im in I make it a point to give him a little bit of extra attention, he's calmed down a little bit, but not quite to the point of letting me handle him without the gloves.
The two boas are also seperated now, in there own tank, which makes it alot easier to get them in and out, and I think will prove beneficial to calming them down a bit. Tommorows feeding day, so I'll see how they do, and if there getting enough food.