Sounds pretty good to me. What size is the shoebox though? And what size is the hide? Live moss will be fine, but lighting is best avoided. These guys are nocturnal, and with light they'll only hide or burrow (which is why they're rarely seen even in areas they're native to). As long as the substrate is deep enough and has the right consistency for burrowing, and the hide is of a suitable size, then lighting shouldn't be a problem though.
As with any other invert, its best to not handle them if you can avoid it. However, some species are more aggressive than others, and some individuals too. My Mastigoproctus giganteus are fairly calm, and only sprayed me when I was sexing them. The larger pair is more calm than the smaller pair though. My Minbosius manilanus are definately more defensive. One touch got me sprayed one time, lol. They've calmed down over time, but they're still more prone to spray than the giganteus. Aside from that one photo session, and when I showed them to various friends, I haven't handled any of them.
Its cool to see someone else getting some of these guys

What species did you order?