The easiest and most accurate way to sex a tarantula is by using a molt.
Once the tarantula has molted, look inside, between the 2 anterior booklungs...
If it is a female there should be a visible flap, this is the uterus externus...
If it does not have this, then it is a male.
Look at the pictures and check for the difference... remember, between the 2 anterior booklungs (white spots)...
If you need any help let me know.
FEMALE B. auratum
MALE B. auratum
It is also possible to sex it ventrally, but it is difficult and rather inaccurate unless you have a microscopic picture of it... but if you can get a close up picture of the same area but from the outside of the living spider I'll take a shot at it...